If you build a better dating site, they won't come...

There are certain truths that have sunk into my feeble brain over the years.


Most people on dating sites want fantasy, they are not looking for a real person, for a real relationship.

Even if a man is 90 years old, and confined to a wheelchair, if he signs up on international dating sites, he will message the youngest girls, with the biggest boobs in her pictures, in the most distant country, and expect her to show up on his doorstep.

The bigger the boobs in the profile pictures,  or in the pictures the 'girl' provides, the longer the man will stay in contact with her.  (Even if he suspects this is a scammer)

Anything a scammer tells them has to have some thread of truth, but everything somebody well versed in scams says, is suspect.

('Yes, she stole $20,000 from me, but I think she really loves me.  Maybe she is being forced to do this?")

Kids in third world countries have smartphones, and there are internet cafes everywhere, but supermodels and rich businessmen who travel, often find themselves in places there are no cams to show a face on.

Rich businessmen who travel the world, and have multiple lavish homes in various countries,  need to ask strangers for money when they encounter fake difficulties.


Sexy, young, attractive Russian ladies, who provide pictures of themselves 'out on the town', actually stay home at night, knitting with granny,.


Every Filipina girl is born with the desire to find a 65 year old Kano husband, online, when they turn 18.

People who money for the internet, and spend hours a day online, do not have money for food, and need your financial support.


Soldiers who are deployed to combat areas, can leave that area, and go on vacation to come meet you, if you send them money.   (This is why wars last so long, everybody is leaving all the time.)

People who are smart enough to steal millions of dollars, or earn millions of dollars, are not smart enough to figure out a way to hide it, or transfer it to another country, without the help of somebody they find on the internet.  (Who will be asked to pay 'fees'.)


Ladies who are 'too shy' to show a face on cam, are not 'too shy' to send you multiple pictures of them in provocative poses, or in scanty swimwear.

There is also some charity that sends poor girls to lavish resorts, or distant cities for tourism.
I know this is true, I've seen the pictures.

If you provide an internet dating site, which screens out 99% of the scammers, real people will not be interested.   They prefer the busier sites, full of fakes, perverts and scammers.
(This one statement is true...)


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sornakart@gmail.com SCAM jangthia7788@outlook.com

Dear Friend,
Am duly sorry to interrupt your daily activities with my mail content as matter of urgency and privacy as you can see the uprising in Thailand in the link ( http://edition.cnn.com/2014/05/24/world/asia/thailand-coup/ ) Regarding the military coup and Thailand Political problem everything was parallelized to stand still and because of that I was delayed and restrained from my daily work due to my defection from the Thai military Junta.
Please save me this shame of honor as I have defected from the Thailand Naval Chief to a civilian in other to help my cousin who served as the Minister for finance under the hold former Prime Minister Yingluck Shinawatra Government, but now I am free to discuss with you regards my proposal for investment with you as the handler of this funds and project in your country if we may come to certain conditions here.
I know that your country is very good and among the industrial developing countries where the safety of life and property are secured and better than that of Thailand, so many problems here and I don’t want to risk waiting before the military junta will clamp on these funds as my cousin remained in the military detention as of time you are reading this message from me , everything here is been affected by the political crisis in my country, so I will like to invest this fund where you will manage it properly for more good dividend and mutual benefit for future purpose between us.
Please do confirm the necessary information’s to proceed, though I would like to hold back certain information for security reasons until you have declared your open intentions regarding this transaction with me and above I want to mention that this transaction shall be handled under a legitimate arrangement for security reasons and risk free. I need your transparency.
Please reconfirm this information’s for me. And I will also send you my information back to know more about me.
1) Your complete name Passport copy
2) Your company name and address
3) Your private telephone and fax number
4) Your status and occupation
get back to, sornakart@gmail.com
I will look forward to your quick response to this immediate message.
Yours Sincerely,
Apichai Sornakart
Former (DPIFMBT) Thailand

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Free, safe dating sites online

There are only two free dating sites I can recommend that are fairly safe, datingnmore.com, and asianlonelyhearts.com.
Most dating sites, free or otherwise, do not bother to do much checking of new profiles, or monitoring activity on the site. By 'monitoring' activity, I do not mean reading your messages, or spying, but there are usually ways to watch site activity without invading your privacy, and scammers do tend to operate in predictable ways, and usually exhibit some known traits.
Most of the knowledge a site operator needs to have to spot these scammers is pretty easily acquired. You just have to be interested in protecting your members, and operating a 'clean' site. Most dating sites don't do this.
Datingnmore.com is a large, free, safe dating site, owned and operated by a friend of mine, who is probably the leading expert in internet romance scams, in the world. The site is friendly, and has an extensive array of members from throughout the world.
AsianLonelyhearts.com is a new, free, small 'Asian' dating site I am involved with. We hope to offer the best free 'Asian' dating site available.
We need new members, and really need new female members.
It will take a while for Asianlonelyhearts to become a busy, active site, but we prefer to build the site honestly, and with real people. Why waste your time on fakes, scammers, and players?
Please join, and help us build this site.

So? You look at these two sites and think they are boring, and not as exciting as most dating sites? Do you realize you are used to typical CRAP found on dating sites? Fake profiles of half naked people. Stolen pictures of celebrities. Hundreds or thousands of profiles of people you try to contact, but never reply? ( they're fake profiles!)
Do you think PAYING for a site offers you some safety and value? It usually doesn't! The scammers operate on virtually every site, paid, or free.
The one exception in paid 'Asian' dating I can offer is Christian Filipina Dating. Christian-Filipina is one of the few sites that actively checks new profiles, and has some unique methods to screen members. Give it a try if you prefer a 'paid' site, or try all of the sites I suggest!
Regardless of which online site you use, please remember: Never send money to somebody you only know from the internet, or phone calls!
Always expect to see a face on webcam. Do not accept 'no cam' and pictures as proof you are in contact with the person they claim they are.
Keep the age gap reasonable. Yes, you may know of an 80 year old man with a 20 year old Asian bride, but that combination usually doesn't last long or work out, and somebody usually ends up broke and unhappy. (and it's not the girl who was broke to start with)
Be careful, and good luck.
You can find a 'fantasy' romance online very easily. Sometimes the fantasy is fairly short.

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